A North Carolina woman told her husband she was gay after six years of marriage but said they would remain a couple and will help each other “pick up women.”

Nicolette Popa told her husband Ryan Popa that she knew she was a lesbian but kept her sexual preference a secret until 2020. After hearing the news, the couple decided to stay together for the sake of their children.

Nicolette says, “For right now, what we do works. We’re trying to figure out our careers and trying to make sure that our kids have the best outcome.”

Nicolette uses TikTok to document the couple’s unique relationship where she said in one post that she and her husband “pick up women together.” Another TikTok post shows Nicolette saying she and Ryan have “the same taste in women.”

Ryan said he was happy with the situation and wasn’t surprised that his wife was a lesbian.